Wednesday, 3 October 2012

Misplaced priorities in marriage


Nigerian girls, what kind of guy do you like? Rich, handsome, caring, who can provide my needs, sweet, dependable, respectful and the list goes on.
Nigerian guys what kind of girl do you want? Independent, a career woman, a support system and other things.

The two ideas contradict whereas a man who is carried away by looks, he is ready to overlook it and go for character to settle with; the lady is looking for an ATM machine to settle with.

In the present day Nigeria, men want somebody to be able to share responsibility with not just any woman that wants to eat and spend where she did not cultivate.

When we find whatever we look for in that person we should know That there's one thing we should settle for "A FRIEND" a wise lady said to me one day "get married to your friend like I did and you would never regret it.

When there is little you know your friend is there for you and when you have plentiful you'll know that you and your friend did it."

In recent times people get married for so many other reasons and end up creating hells instead of homes.

We should please, always, know what step we make before taking them.
We aren't joined to be man and stranger or woman and stranger we are to be man and wife.

And she is to be your wife sister friend mother and she will give you all the support you need.

Ginika Okoro

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